But the ones with all the blinding lights and red flags at the very tippy-top?

And the winner is:
Drumroll please… 🥁
Narcissist. 🚩
And conversely:
Empath. 🚩
*shudders*
There’s more I could list but I’m sure I’ve already ruffled a few feathers! Don’t take it personally, it’s just my opinion, and like certain body parts, we all have them.
Now go have a coffee and enjoy your day! ☕️
Don’t get me wrong, there are some points in time where there’s no better description but the use of said words above.
Happiest of Tuesdays! I’ll be around when I can!😊 Post is scheduled.

Very true!
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Absolutely! 👍
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It would seem that those words were on everyone’s word of the day toilet paper roll. Hear them being thrown around with abandon almost to Ad nauseam. Great post and observation.
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Thank you! I see lots of “gaslighting” too which is also a great choice. For sure, these psychological terms are way overused by any and all who read just a little bit of psychology it seems lol 😂 thanks for your comment!
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I find people who describe themselves frequently as being empaths tend to be a little narcissistic, while insulting others who do not claim the same.
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Oh my god! 🤣 This couldn’t be more accurate of a description. Everyone I know who is a supposed “empath” has more narcissistic traits than I know what to deal with 😂 if only they could see their own self…blind
You hit the nail on the head, Tash!
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Empathy in that sense feels like emotional vampirism. Perhaps I am too cynical, but I prefer altruism as a trait than ’empathy’.
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Not cynical at all! I agree!
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Absolutely. I’d probably add spiritual to that LOL
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It can definitely be overused in so many of ways, that’s for sure. I consider myself a “spiritual” person, but people throw it around and oftentimes when you speak of “spirituality” people definitely cringe thinking of all the things that go along with it, a saying I absolutely abhor “love and light” included with it as it’s often said with no feeling behind it at all.
Sorry, a tad bit of rant there lol 😂
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For sure kind of like thoughts and prayers 🙂 people say it to say something nice too often
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Very true!
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Those are way way overused words — to the point that they’ve lost all meaning. Good choices.
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Very true! “I’m such an empath and all these narcissists are triggering me!!!”
Dang. Should’ve included the word “trigger” too 😂
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snowflake! :-p
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That’s one I like to use too lol 😂
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😀
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I met a narcissistic empath the other day he felt sorty for fucking me over for the promotion but then he just shrugged it off.
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Oh that sounds about right, seriously. How sad! Blah 😒 sorry that happened to you
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You’ve made me realize I missed it’s opposite! LOL! And reading through these comments!!! Great post!
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Thank you! 🙏 yes, it’s not used probably as much per se, but when you hear it often I find it’s overused and not in the correct way at all.
Always appreciate your comments! 😊
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I hear and follow your wise advice, “Now go have a coffee and enjoy your day!” it’s on!
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Do it! Currently on cup number 3! Lol 😂 ☕️
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Nice post!
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Thank you so much, Daisy! 😊 Hope you’re having a great week so far 🙏
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☕ cheers!
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coffee it is …(again 🤭)…🤍
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It will always be the answer! 😂 🙏 🩷 ☕️
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Black, no sugar please. 😉
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Coming right up!! ☕️ haha 😆
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Yup, with you. I’ve known lovely people who consider themselves empaths, but it’s also a term that I’ve known some to use as though it made them incapable of being wrong or moody. 🙂
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Absolutely true! And of course there’s the “real” meaning of empath, which is often vastly overlooked or used in the wrong context, but I’ve found it’s too much of a “be nice to me because I feel everything so deeply!” Or as you stated so perfectly, “I’m never wrong about anything or anyone.” Very frustrating in a lot of ways. 😫
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Hear that! So so true.
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Very true indeed.
When you said this (blinding lights and red flags) it reminded me of this old school song.
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I love this song!! Thank you! 🙏
And glad you agree, for sure a red flag 🚩 when anyone talks about how great of a person they are or how many “narcissists” they’ve encountered (or better yet, had multiple romantic relationships with) just a yikes 😬 lol 😂
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You welcome.
I couldn’t agree more. I’ve heard the same song from people myself. It’s crazy.
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People love to throw terms around and completely out of context these days. As you said, there is a long list, but those two are a good pair for sure.
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You had a great one too with gaslighting. A lot of people don’t understand what the term means or if they simply don’t like something someone says they are being “gaslit” by a “narcissist” 🙄 anyways I know I don’t have to tell you that, you already know how absurd it is lol 😆
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Absurd indeed and all too often witnessed 😄
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The last decade “Organic” has grated my nerves (lol)! On point-promptly post, Laura 🙂 !!!
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Omggggg 😱 thank you! This too! Everything is organic 🤣 😆 super irritating, I agree.
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It’s so organic it caught salmonella … so gross and when ppl over enunciate (Whhhyyy) hahaha
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Lmao omg 😂 I alllllmooosssttt listed this other one on the post but I didn’t wanna offend anyone, but I feel it’s wayyy overused and I loathe the way it sounds – “poignant” ugh 🥴 blah!! It reminds me of “moist” haha 🤣
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They are trying to sound smug or those announcers who drag everything out … as if their being absorbs the camera light. *WE can see you* (LOLOL)
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😂 so very true!! Sometimes see right through you, too! Lol
How are you, though? I hope everything is going ok ❤️
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Pretty good, can’t complain … and you!? ❤ I'm actually taking a break, going to stare at the moon for a minute with my hot coffee (lol) and I will make a special wish just for you 😉 !!!
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Awww you are too kind!! Im off, thankfully and then working my final week at the far away job, then starting (2!!!) new ones shortly after ahhh 😱 it’s been a little chaotic!
And awww you are so kind ❤️ I appreciate that. Saw the half moon last night and tried to get a few shots! 🌗 enjoy your coffee ☕️ black!! lol 😆 and thank you for the wish 😊
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That’s a lot to tackle … you are so inspiring and I’m so proud of you! ❤ Ten-fold in return for all your good work … It doesn't always go unnoticed 😉 (hahaha).
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Awwww ❤️ thank you! I’m proud of you too! 🙏 Best soul sister ever! 🐉 🐉 haha and that’s appreciated, your fine work and words definitely don’t go unnoticed either, you spend so much of your time trying to uplift us here with your beautiful words and it truly is a blessing. I’m so thankful to have crossed paths with you, seriously 😊 hope you know that!
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It’s not even the overuse that annoys me, what bugs me is that people call everyone they don’t like a narcissist without truly knowing what narcissist means. It’s the misuse that’s annoys me.
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Very true! Misuse is so rampant, not everyone who says something you don’t like is a narcissist, right? 😆
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Exactly! And before that people kept saying “I’m so OCD” just because they were neat or perfectionists. It’s really not anything like having OCD.
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Very true! Just because you’re a clean freak doesn’t mean you’re OCD! That’s a very difficult diagnosis to live with as well.
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Absolutely, I wish people would stop misusing terms like that.
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