What bores you?

This is a loaded question, sometimes.
When I was younger, I used to think people who were āboredā or suffered from āboredomā just didnāt have enough to do.
And if they didnāt have enough to do, why didnāt they use their imagination to create or find some way to make their own fun?
As I got older, being bored meant I wasnāt pressed or anxious about anything.
And that can be a blessing.
I am ALWAYS able to find something to do, something to write, some time to exercise, even just catch up on my sleep deprivation Iāve incurred for the last several years! š
If one is truly bored, then usually itās time for a shake-up or something new in their routine.
Maybe a new work-out.
Try something different or visit a place youāve been wanting to go in your area.
Meditate.
Find solace in the silence.
Go outside.
Hell, Iād plan a vacation.
Itās like the people I know at work who have 280 hours of vacation saved up.
What?! You never take a day off to relax?
You have nowhere to go?!
Please, itās good for your mental health.
Oftentimes in addiction medicine and behavioral health (the field in which Iāve worked for several years) you have patients who say they use substances due to āboredom.ā (This is also sometimes co-occurring with loneliness, unfortunately.)
Idle minds are the devilās playground, and all that, right?
Donāt get me wrong, Iām not against having a drink once in awhile (in moderation, Iāll definitely be participating in some Thirsty Thursday tonight!)
Boredom can also sometimes stem from depression.
But please, donāt allow boredom to lead you down the line of something destructive to your mind, heart, body, and soul.
There is ALWAYS something you can do that is conducive to your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health.
And when thereās not?
Just be.
Cherish the time you have and enjoy it.

Wise guidance. There is something in boredom as a sign of things being generally okay and maybe not knowing what to do with that!
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Very true! You are so right about that š
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